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How do you deal with insubordinate employees?
I have been in management for 14yrs., started a new job about 1 month ago in management. New staff is starting to realize that I'm using my management skills, and they don't like it. I think they are trying to get rid of me because they don't like someone telling them what to do. I'm an Assistant Manager and the Manager has hired me one because of my experience and gives me full reign. He wants me to "whip" them into shape. However, I feel alot of resistance what suggestions would you make to make this transition smoother. (The uppers of the company also feel I am needed there to iron out the kinks...I guess it'll be painful for awhile until we get them all back in line).
Hey there,
Imagine if you'av been under a manager for quite awhile and then there's a sudden change. Not only that, this manager, upon arriving, assumes that he/she's boss and decides to change things...wouldn't you think that this new person's a pretty arrogant prick?
Remember first that you are a new outsider. You have not entered a family yet. It is never a good idea to assert yourself so fast in the beginning. Having had 14 years of managing people, I'm sure you know that being a human is very important, and that being a manager is being a human relations specialist, because you are not managing robots and slaves, but managing people with feelings as well. In other words, rather than making a whirlwind change, do things slowly.
What I'd do is first to understand their situation first. Afterall, they have worked here longer than I have. I'm not familiar with their culture, quirks and relationships yet. The idea is not to judge on whether they have poor ethics or not yet, but just to find out where they stand.
After that, I'd let them know that certain things have to change, most definitely not because you are their new manager trying to whip them into shape, but because the company needs to improve. And to improve, you need their help.
If, after that they do not change, then they will be at fault, because they have proven that they'd rather maintain a lower standard than required. This will be the time when you'd consider using the more drastic measures of punishment.
I might be wrong, but from your question I feel that you are coming from a pretty aggressive view, that your new subordinates are not up to standard and that you need to use your whip immediately. Put yourself in their position, would you like that? After all, even though you are their manager, no work will be done if they are not around.
Conclusion: You have to be firm (read:firm..not become a dictator) but not unreasonable. It's very easy to just fire or punish someone, but more work is required when you one to build a cohesive team that produces results.
I hope I helped.
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Sexual Object Versus Fetish Object
Sexual objectification is when a person is seen as merely an object of sexual desire. Their attitudes, thoughts, beliefs, and sometimes even their feelings are voided from this interpretation. For the voyeur, the sexual object is an instrument of fantasy, of lust. Visual cues are often the catalyst for sexual objectification.
Such an intense and impassioned gaze happens on a regular basis, almost effortlessly, and is often perceived as an abominable, immoral, and sexist disease that demeans, degrades, and abuses women (mostly). But, as we continue to explore relationships between fetishism and sexual objectification, we will find that the practice of a lustful gaze is natural and necessary for any sexual encounter.
Sexual fetishes have the same resounding qualities as sexual objectification. Fetishism is the often sexualized practice and relationship between a fetishist and his/her fetish object. The fetish object describes that which is fetishized by the voyeur. A role, an act, an incident, a routine, a body part, material, places, people, taboo or controversial concepts are just some commonly known fetish-objects. I talk more about this subject in my video podcast.
Fetishism is sexual objectification on a religious level. The object is still objectified, but holds greater value to the fetishist, so much so that s/he is at the mercy of that fetish-object. A sexual object may act as an instrument of lust, but a fetish object is omnipotent and inevitable. The sexual encounter is not immediate, but rather a satisfying and enduring session of worship and sensual play.
Why do I bring these two seemingly dissimilar concepts together? Because they are not so dissimilar! As mentioned, anything and anyone can be a fetish-object. For those of you who have entered a relationship with a fetishist, you might find yourself in a predicament where you are the fetish-object. Your lover may ask if s/he can worship your feet or shoes. S/He may ask you to become a power-greedy dominant or a desperate-to-please submissive ready to serve. Simply put, your lover desires you and they want to include you in their fantasies.
We’re all sexual objects during our most intimate encounters. Would you want it on any other way? We elicit desire and lust from our lover, who (ideally) wants to dedicate their bodies to our every source of pleasure. Being a fetish-object is only different because of the unconventional element of worship and surrender. Fetish-objectification begs us to compromise more than we’re used to, which is why it’s still considered on the fringe of sexual conventions or, to some, a form of psychological disorder.
Considering that all sexual encounters (and fetish encounters) require the respect of either partner is recognized and observed, compromising your comforts for something new is usually the first step in playing with your lover and living in their fantasy (for that moment, of course). It’s natural to feel awkward or uncomfortable - imagine your first sexual experience. Similar feelings, right? Well, fetishism provides no easy transition either, especially if this is your first time experimenting with your lover.
While letting go of your natural comforts does not occur overnight, you can begin to shed some of your reservations by communicating with your partner. The fetishist, too, must compromise with a new playmate. So be sure to include some reasonable boundaries. As you continue to play, gradually remove each boundary from your list. Allow your lover to see you loving their fetish in full bloom. Also identify your own fantasies as well and bring them into your sex life.
About the Author
Christina Cicchelli is a professional fetish coach. She helps both individuals and couples unleash their inner pervert and introduce their kinky fantasies into the bedroom. If you feel as though you may benefit from fetish coaching, visit www.christinacicchelli.com. She also has a video podcast, Date With a Fetish Coach. You can watch all of her episodes here (http://www.christinacicchelli.com/Christina_Cicchelli/Date_With_a_Fetish_Coach/Date_With_a_Fetish_Coach.html) You can also email her - fetishcoach@gmail.com
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